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<title>Thailand Donation</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 20:05:22 -0700</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <p>Donation offers great relief to people or countries who want help in form of money or goods. Donation can be provided in cash or kind, whatever is possible to the giver. Donations are collected by several charities and trusts of that country. There are several charities in different fields like education, arts, athletics, research, refugees etc. that receive donations from several organizations, huge business set ups and social supporters all over the world. The donation that is collected is distributed to the needy and poor in form of cash or kind. Most of the countries below the poverty line accept donations from allover the world. Donations are not only desired by very poor nations but are also used for betterment of populace within the developing and developed nations. Similarly, donations in Thailand are a good way to aid the people monetarily and honorably. Most of the charities in Thailand accept all types of donations, either in form of cash or in form of goods. Normally, charities and trusts get great support from monetary institutions such as banks as they can get donations in form of cash, but now charities ascertain their benefactors easy and convenient method of accepting donations in form of merchandise. But the charities accepting donations in Thailand accept whatever you wish to donate them. People who are devoid of basic necessities like food and clothing, are widely accepted in form of donation in Thailand. Moreover, benefactors also donate secondary items such as furniture, cell phones, PCs that might be old but still working to aid the educational institutions and businesses in Thailand. The old furniture helps people who have lost their houses and property due to natural calamities like floods or tsunami. Medicines and other health tablets are also provided in government hospitals in form of donations in Thailand. This helps the patients who can not afford to pay for their basic treatments. Donations in Thailand can be given to the orphanage or the old age home where the orphans often need aid and support in form of food and primary needs such as clothing and education. The old people in old age home want healthy food for them to live healthily. Gift donations are also broadly accepted in Thailand. Donations in Thailand not only provide monetary support but also helps to boost country's moral and confidence. This country can take help of donations offered to it and bring a huge difference in economic, social and political condition of the society. There are various standards set by charities to accept the gift donations. So the organizations or donors who are donating gift donations in Thailand, have to meet the standards set by them. Pricey gift donations include car, auto or any other form of vehicle that is functional. The donor donating such expensive goods to Thailand enjoys tax deductions on the existing appraised values of their donations. It is always useful for the needy. Charity gift donations are generally welcomed regardless of the product that is gifted, what charity it is donated or for what reason it is donated. If you wish to offer donations in Thailand, there are several genuine online sites that may accept your donations and supply it to the concerned charity. Donations not only aid the poor monetarily but also provide them moral support as they feel someone in this world truly cares for them.</p> ]]></description>
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<title>Motivation as the heart of self-improvement</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 19:31:44 -0700</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <p>You should be able to find several indispensable facts about Motivation in the following paragraphs. If there's at least one fact you didn't know before, imagine the difference it might make.<br /><br />Pain may sometimes be the reason why people change. Getting flunked grades make us realize that we need to study. Debts remind us of our inability to look for a source of income. Being humiliated gives us the &lsquo;push' to speak up and fight for ourselves to save our face from the next embarrassments. It may be a bitter experience, a friend's tragic story, a great movie, or an inspiring book that will help us get up and get just the right amount of motivation we need in order to improve ourselves.<br /><br />With the countless negativities the world brings about, how do we keep motivated? Try on the tips I prepared from A to Z&hellip;<br /><br />A - Achieve your dreams. Avoid negative people, things and places. Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "the future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."<br /><br />B - Believe in your self, and in what you can do.<br /><br />C &ndash; Consider things on every angle and aspect. Motivation comes from determination. To be able to understand life, you should feel the sun from both sides.<br /><br />D &ndash; Don't give up and don't give in. Thomas Edison failed once, twice, more than thrice before he came up with his invention and perfected the incandescent light bulb. Make motivation as your steering wheel.<br /><br />E &ndash; Enjoy. Work as if you don't need money. Dance as if nobody's watching. Love as if you never cried. Learn as if you'll live forever. Motivation takes place when people are happy.<br /><br />F &ndash; Family and Friends &ndash; are life's greatest &lsquo;F' treasures. Don't loose sight of them.<br /><br />G &ndash; Give more than what is enough. Where does motivation and self improvement take place at work? At home? At school? When you exert extra effort in doing things.<br /><br />H &ndash; Hang on to your dreams. They may dangle in there for a moment, but these little stars will be your driving force.<br /><br />I &ndash; Ignore those who try to destroy you. Don't let other people to get the best of you. Stay out of toxic people &ndash; the kind of friends who hates to hear about your success.<br /><br />J &ndash; Just be yourself. The key to success is to be yourself. And the key to failure is to try to please everyone.<br /><br />K &ndash; keep trying no matter how hard life may seem. When a person is motivated, eventually he sees a harsh life finally clearing out, paving the way to self improvement. <br /><br />L &ndash; Learn to love your self. Now isn't that easy?<br /><br />M &ndash; Make things happen. Motivation is when your dreams are put into work clothes.<br /><br />N &ndash; Never lie, cheat or steal. Always play a fair game.<br /><br />See how much you can learn about Motivation when you take a little time to read a well-researched article? Don't miss out on the rest of this great information.<br /><br />O &ndash; Open your eyes. People should learn the horse attitude and horse sense. They see things in 2 ways &ndash; how they want things to be, and how they should be.<br /><br />P &ndash; Practice makes perfect. Practice is about motivation. It lets us learn repertoire and ways on how can we recover from our mistakes.<br /><br />Q &ndash; Quitters never win. And winners never quit. So, choose your fate &ndash; are you going to be a quitter? Or a winner?<br /><br />R &ndash; Ready yourself. Motivation is also about preparation. We must hear the little voice within us telling us to get started before others will get on their feet and try to push us around. Remember, it wasn't raining when Noah build the ark.<br /><br />S &ndash; Stop procrastinating.<br /><br />T &ndash; Take control of your life. Discipline or self control jives synonymously with motivation. Both are key factors in self improvement.<br /><br />U &ndash; Understand others. If you know very well how to talk, you should also learn how to listen. Yearn to understand first, and to be understood the second.<br /><br />V &ndash; Visualize it. Motivation without vision is like a boat on a dry land.<br /><br />W &ndash; Want it more than anything. Dreaming means believing. And to believe is something that is rooted out from the roots of motivation and self improvement.<br /><br />X &ndash; X Factor is what will make you different from the others. When you are motivated, you tend to put on "extras" on your life like extra time for family, extra help at work, extra care for friends, and so on.<br /><br />Y &ndash; You are unique. No one in this world looks, acts, or talks like you. Value your life and existence, because you're just going to spend it once.<br /><br />Z &ndash; Zero in on your dreams and go for it!!!<br /><br />Now might be a good time to write down the main points covered above. The act of putting it down on paper will help you remember what's important about Motivation.</p> ]]></description>
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<title>Spend Time With People Who Recharge Your Spirit</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 14:22:39 -0700</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <p>Have you ever met someone who recharges your energy just by being there? Perhaps it is the things they say or how they say them, or the way they respect and value your goals and ideas, or the example they set. These are people that you need to be around regularly to recharge your spirit.<br /><br />So many people in the world are negative. They complain and criticize about everything. They always have an excuse why they don't get off their butt and achieve something. These people can wear you down after a while.<br /><br />There are other things that can drain your spirit as well. Everyone has their own share of problems and pressures. If you are stretching your comfort zone, so that you can become more in life, then you will run up against far more problems and pressures than the average person, simply because you are doing far more.<br /><br />It is important that you regularly recharge your spirit so that you feel renewed and ready to move on to becoming all you can be in this incredible life.<br /><br />One of the best ways is to regularly spend some time with people who help you recharge. People who are well developed personally have this ability and they are happy to share it with those others who are genuinely on the path to developing their own potential.<br /><br />There are many different levels at which you can tap into this energy. <br /><br />A simple way is to read books and articles by, or listen to audios of, successful, inspiring people. This is a way that you can get a lift any time that you need it. For this reason I think that the ipod (and similar devices) is the greatest invention of recent times. You can carry around in your pocket a whole audio library of inspiration and knowledge to be tapped into whenever and wherever you wish.<br /><br />Another way to recharge is to attend live talks given by inspiring people. There are all manner of seminars available in most major cities around the world and these seminars cover a huge range of inspiring and informative topics. It can really help to attend these from time to time.<br /><br />By far the best way to tap into that recharge is to regularly mix with people who have the recharge quality. The sort of people who walk the walk. The people who can always find a positive side to every situation and enjoy the challenge of overcoming obstacles and roadblocks. These people will give you a massive spiritual recharge if you spend enough time with them.<br /><br />Where do you find people like that? Well if you work to develop those same qualities within yourself then you will start attracting those rechargers to you. You could also make a decision to join or form a power group that meets regularly. A power group is a group of success minded people who help inspire each other, share knowledge and contacts, brainstorm ideas, and help each others' success journey in any way that they can.<br /><br />If you form your own power group be prepared to fire anyone who isn't up to scratch and always be on the lookout for suitable new members. Most power groups function best with 4 to 10 members. I personally find 7 to be the ideal number.<br /><br />Whatever it takes, make sure that you get a recharge at least once a week, whether it be through reading, listening, or interacting directly with a powerful recharger.</p> ]]></description>
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<title>The Law of Attraction & the Science of Getting Rich</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 23:29:24 -0700</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <p>What are you thinking about right now? The Law of Attraction states that "whatever we think about, we bring about". This law may initially seem like new age fluff but believe it or not, there are scientific merits to this proposition. The top quantum physicists of our time have discovered that our universe and our reality is very much directed by the "observer". <br /><br />When studying quantum particles (the smallest observable unit of matter), these scientists discovered that such particles behave in accordance with the person conducting the experiment. It the scientists "predict" that quantum particles behave in a certain way, they do. And yet, if the scientists "predict" that quantum particles behave in another way, they do. It is the "observer" that dictates the outcome of the experiment! <br /><br />What does all this mean for us normal people? Well actually, these scientific experiments has far reaching implications for us as our world is made up of these same quantum particles! In this case, we are the "observer" the director and hence the creator of our reality, our world and our experience. <br /><br />So, be careful of what you think about! for example, have you thoughts ever begun with the following phrases: <br /><br />&bull; I don&rsquo;t understand&hellip; <br /><br />&bull; I don't want... <br /><br />&bull; I&rsquo;m frustrated that&hellip; <br /><br />&bull; I hate my&hellip; <br /><br />&bull; I can&rsquo;t figure out &hellip; <br /><br />&bull; I&rsquo;m stressed about&hellip; <br /><br />&bull; I&rsquo;m worried that&hellip; <br /><br />&bull; I should be able to&hellip; but I can&rsquo;t&hellip; <br /><br />Why am I having so much trouble? <br /><br />The Law of Attraction indifferent to the words preceding your thought. Whatever you think about you will attract into your life. When you think "I don't understand why bad things always happen to me?", you are "attracting" bad things into your life. When you think "I want to get out of debt", you are attracting more debt into your life. When you think "I'm worried I will get sick", you are attracting sickness into your life! The Law of Attraction brings about what you focus on even if it is not what you want. Get it? <br /><br />If you understand this principle, here are some examples of how to make the law of attraction work to support you rather than to act against you. Try observing your thoughts and changing your thinking in the following way: <br /><br />&bull; "I want to get out of debt" to "I want to earn amazing riches" <br /><br />&bull; "I hate my boss" to "I look forward to owning my own business" <br /><br />&bull; "I don't understand why he is so lazy" to "I love it when he helps out around the house" <br /><br />&bull; "I'm stressed about this project" to "I always create amazing results in my projects" <br /><br />&bull; "I'm worried about getting sick" to "I experience vibrant health daily" <br /><br />Now that we have a better understanding of the Law of Attraction, it is no surprise why so many people struggle with regards to money. It is been said that "the rich get richer while the poor get poorer". This is actually the Law of Attraction in action. Because the wealthy have money, they often think about how to best use their money and hence they attract more money. The poor on the other hand often think about their present lack of money and unfortunately, that also attracts lack into their lives. Currently, 96% of the world's wealth is being earned by just 1% of the population! <br /><br />To address this issue, the main teachers behind the movie is launching a program is called "The Science of Getting Rich" and it is based on employing the law of attraction to create wealth. This amazing program is based on the principles and philosophies outlined in a book of the same title written in 1910 by Wallace D Wattles. This is the same book that inspired the movie. <br /><br />What is the Science of Getting Rich about? Well in the words of Wallace D. Wattles, "The ownership of money and property comes as a result of doing things in a certain way. Those who do things in this certain way, whether on purpose or accidentally, get rich. Those who do not do things in this certain way, no matter how hard they work or how able they are, remain poor. It is a natural law that like causes always produce like effects. Therefore, any man or woman who learns to do things in this certain way will infallibly get rich." The Science of Getting Rich Seminar is all about teaching how to do things in this "certain" way to create wealth.</p> ]]></description>
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<title>6 Powerful Steps to High Levels of Black Motivation</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 23:06:35 -0700</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <p>It is a well established fact that success in life goes most frequently not to the most deserving, the best looking or even the most intelligent. Instead, it tends to go to the person with the greatest amount of drive or motivation. Motivation is that intangible something which makes you get up early in the morning, full of energy and ready to accomplish tasks and attack obstacles because you &ldquo;want to.&rdquo; You have passion. You are driven.<br /><br />But in today&rsquo;s complicated, competitive and often cut-throat world how does the success-oriented person maintain consistently high levels of motivation to get the job done and achieve the stated goal? How is it possible when there are so many negative and retarding forces arrayed against you sapping your energy and causing you mental fatigue?<br /><br />Well, here are six powerful steps which will help you through and beyond the trials and tribulations.<br /><br />#1 - You must be driven by an overwhelming desire to achieve a specific goal. Goals give purpose to life. Without them, you will find yourself meandering through life being controlled by events and the actions (or inactions) of others. You might get lucky and accomplish a little something. But that which you achieve will be the result of just that - luck - or put another way &ldquo;mediocre, accidental success.&rdquo;<br /><br />#2 - Each goal must be clear and specific. They should be written down. And you should be able to write them down in 15 words or less so clearly that a 10-year-old can understand them. Statements such as &ldquo;I want to be happy&rdquo; or &ldquo;I want to be rich&rdquo; are not goals; they are daydreams. Wake up! Goals must be rational, have a timeline for achieving them and be concrete such that you can actually measure whether or not the goal is being achieved.<br /><br />#3 - Nourish your goals. Feed them with thought and effort. Smart thinking and specific actions are the nutrients which feed goals and enable them to grow into strong realities. You should have a &ldquo;daily things to do list&rdquo; which includes specific tasks aimed at bringing you closer to your specific, clear and concrete goals. <br /><br />#4 - Adopt the following mantra: &ldquo;I get the most out of life by endeavoring to get the most out of each day.&rdquo; This mantra is to be repeated in the morning shortly after getting out of bed; once in the evening shortly before going to bed and each and every time you feel yourself wavering or slacking off. <br /><br />#5 - Consistently rest and relax. Nothing which has been said above implies that you must run through life frantic and at breakneck speed. In fact, your actions will be smooth, efficient and effective because you will be working according to a plan and because you know what you are doing. Since your goals are concrete and not daydreams or fantasies, you will be able to see and measure your progress. And next to a good sexual experience, nothing enables you to rest like being able to honestly say at night &ldquo;This was a good day.&rdquo;<br /><br />#6 - Meditate to the point of self-hypnosis. Daily meditation (or prayer for those of you who are more religious) need not take more than 15 minutes to one-half hour of your time. Go to a comfortable, quiet place, sit down, lean back, close your eyes and gradually relax your entire body. Then program positive, constructive thoughts into your mind. This can be a self-hypnotizing experience in which you render your mind relaxed, clear, sharp and happy. Try it. It can truly be a powerful and freeing experience.<br /><br />P.S. - If you can get another person or a team of friends to engage in some of the above practices with you on a regular basis, the experience will be even more powerful, liberating and motivational. This group or &ldquo;family&rdquo; can also act as a protective shield helping one another to ward off and combat some of those retarding forces and obstacles which are bound to arise.</p> ]]></description>
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<title>Life experiences are the vehicles used by motivational speakers</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 16:43:21 -0700</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <p>Life experiences are the vehicles used by motivational speakers. Traveling the highway of life offers people opportunities and challenges that fuel these experiences. Rich histories of lessons learned can and do provide the material that is used in the creating and presenting of work of a motivational speaker. The pace of life is so hectic that seldom do people stop to reflect upon their experiences. Most are too busy to think about how they got to be where they are. Expert motivational speakers take the time and energy to think, feel and become aware of personal stories and events. For some, it is remembering their challenge of climbing Mt. McKinley while for others it is clearing the cob webs in their minds and remembering the challenge of eating lunch in the school cafeteria for the first time. The magnitude is personal and the lessons are individual; each just as important as the next to the owner of the memories.<br /><br />Expert motivational speakers have the ability to take their audiences vicariously on these "highways of life". They present with passion and energy. They gesticulate, move about and produce spirit that encompasses a room. Many people can write their stories but not everyone can deliver them. The art of holding an audience captive with no medium other than oneself is a skill mastered only by the best. Part story teller, part entertainer, the expert motivational speaker can bring a room to laughter one moment and on the verge of tears the next. Motivation comes from thoughts and feelings of wanting, of seeing how it could be, of doing what has not been yet done. Expert motivational speakers awaken these thoughts and feelings in their audiences and once done, drive the vehicle through. Those traveling the journey with the speaker oftentimes find themselves ready for a challenge, a change, a new focused purpose or goal. These challenges and changes often are work related but not always. Audiences can be moved to look at personal challenges as well. An expert motivational speaker convinces the listeners to walk away from the keynote presentation or seminar or workshop and take action: action to be productive, action to be held accountable, action to be trustworthy, action to be stronger in purpose and action to admit weaknesses.<br /><br />So why are expert motivational speakers hired to deliver a keynote presentation or conduct a seminar? Remember the "highways of life" and how crowded and hectic they are? Well, these highways change so rapidly in today's world of business, the skills needed to produce last year are no longer effective this year! The reality that "work" can not be done the way it always has been is visible daily. New tools, new technology, new products arise as fast as the speed of light and we are challenged to keep up with and deliver the product on time and quicker than ever before. We can only rise to these challenges if we take the time to reflect on where we where, and where we are going and where we want to be. An expert motivational speaker can open a mind, set a tone and lay out the need. The need to keep a work force engaged, passionate and motivated is paramount to success in today's competitive world. It is in everyone's best interest to have a workforce that cares , that believes they make a difference, that can see the challenges and wants to be part of the team.<br /><br />Those personal journeys and the stories they tell are the lessons acquired on this "highway of life". A person coming home after a three day weekend only to drive into their driveway to see water flowing out from underneath her front door is a story. The person who finds out at 35 that her mother is really her aunt, that her aunt is really her biological mother, that her sister and brother are really her cousins, that her cousin is really her half sister, that her dad was not really her dad is a story. How about the child that was told he wasn't smart enough to go to college and ended up with a successful business career? That's a story. The list has no limits. These experiences along the "highway of life" are the fuel used by an expert motivational speaker to ignite the care and will in the human spirit.</p> ]]></description>
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<title>How to Fuel Your Mind Daily for Success in Business & Life</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 08:28:21 -0700</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <p>No matter what our goals in life, we will find that everything begins and ends with our mindset. If I were to write a book about the subject of mindset, I&rsquo;d title it: The Proper Care and Feeding of Our Minds. Many people focus on taking action and managing time with little to no focus on managing their thoughts and emotions along the way. What we feed our minds, contributes to our predominant thoughts, feelings, which ultimately colors our perceptions, and the choices we make. We want to strive for our thoughts, feelings and actions to be congruent. The highest income earner in the company I work with often says, &ldquo;Whatever you think about and focus on becomes your maximum potential.&rdquo; My spiritual teacher has said, &ldquo;A golden mind. A golden life.&rdquo;<br /><br />Overall we want to give our minds positive and healthy things to focus on. We must give it careful consideration, just as we ask ourselves, &ldquo;What&rsquo;s for dinner?&rdquo; Just like eating a little junk food occasionally won&rsquo;t kill us, but a little junk food eaten daily can damage one&rsquo;s health over time. In the same way, watching a little TV, (aka the electronic income reducer), can either be a harmless indulgence or wasteful distraction if done in excess. It&rsquo;s about making the right choices (most of the time) that support us.</p>
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<p>I have found that the home based business industry requires one to consistently grow more than any other endeavor. It&rsquo;s not about filling our heads with lots of nice concepts. It&rsquo;s about becoming the best student of oneself and life, and walking the talk. The more we grow, the more our checks grow. Success in business is a direct reflection of our commitment to personal development and application, while taking the proper actions to grow our business. Our growth will impact every aspect of our lives, bringing prosperity to our relationships, finances, health, and much more. The ripple effect is astounding. <br /><br />Some keys to fueling our mind daily include: getting clear on our values and goals, and making a commitment to honor certain practices. In doing so, our choices become a natural expression of our intentions. Through commitment, comes the strength and clarity to follow through as well as adjust our choices if we are off track. <br /><br />It takes trust and willingness to daily refresh our commitment to our spiritual and personal development. One would have to resign as general manager of the Universe if only for a period of time, to give oneself the gift of uninterrupted time with oneself and communion with God. <br /><br />A kitchen timer is an effective tool for carving out a chunk of time to nurture ourselves. Even fifteen minutes twice per day dedicated to connecting with one&rsquo;s self and Spirit can feed us tremendously and make a lasting impression on our day. Surely we can give ourselves some time daily for reflection. <br /><br />Here are a few practices that one could choose from: prayer, scriptural study and other reading, meditation, conscious breathing, being in nature, journaling, contemplation, listening to beautiful music, listening to audios dedicated to spiritual or personal development, to name a few. The internet can be a wonderful resource for spiritual and personal development tools. Laughter is also great practice which nourishes the mind and heart. It can bring a healthy perspective to life&rsquo;s experiences, as well as assist one in tapping into gratitude, another great practice. <br /><br />We can develop a storehouse of practices to assist us in gracefully moving through our life experiences. With commitment to daily practice, we can properly feed, develop, and master our minds and this delicious game of life.</p>
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<title>Optimism vs. Pessimism…</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 01:42:36 -0700</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <p>Some people see the glass as half empty. Others see it as half full. But is it really as simple as that? Is it possible to be a bit of both? What are the advantages and disadvantages to both? Maybe there is more to both mind-sets.<br /><br />When you think about it, most people tend to be an optimist sometimes and a pessimist other times. Ironically, a lot of times things turn out how the people tend to feel about them. If a person feels like something will go well or feels optimistic about it, it usually seems to go well. The same is true of the reverse. When someone feels like something will go badly, it tends to do just that.<br /><br />So why is this?<br /><br />Henry Ford once said, "If you think you can, or you think you can't, you are right!" Does this mean that what we think about, whether positive or negative, tends to happen? The only answer that I can really give to that is yes, but very basically. We cannot simply think things into existence, no matter how optimistic we are, if that is all we do. And when it comes down to it, that's not really optimism, but delusion.<br /><br />But then is there any real difference between pessimism and optimism if, when it comes down to it, the results aren't any different? The short answer is yes, with an added but.<br /><br />Pessimism will tend to lead to bad outcomes, whether it is because you just think things will turn out poorly and thus do not take any action, or because the pessimism will color your actions and choices and as a result you tend to do things that will make the result what you expected, the bad outcome.<br /><br />Now where the but comes in with optimism is that the mere act of thinking either optimistically or pessimistically will for the most part produce not much difference in outcome, with perhaps a slight edge to the optimist. However, when you add positive, productive action to that optimism, this is when truly amazing things can happen. You can be as optimistic as you want that you will find a way to get the money for that new car or new house, but unless you are including the productive action that helps to push things to that end, you will never get there. The difference between only thinking optimistically and thinking optimistically while acting in a productive manner is kind of like saying to an empty fireplace "Give me warmth and then I will put some wood in you".<br /><br />I once knew a woman who always said, "I would rather expect the worst and be pleasantly surprised on the rare occasion when good happens than be disappointed all the time". This pessimistic attitude of hers has brought her nothing but misery and strife, and yet she still thinks it has nothing to do with her. She does not realize that her pessimism is coloring her entire life and making the bad things she expects to happen actually happen. My response to her was always, "I would much prefer to expect the best and enjoy what life gives me than to constantly worry about how bad things are." For a long time, we had the same results. Then I realized that I needed to do my part and put positive, productive action behind my thoughts. And while I am not where I want to be yet, I have moved much closer to it and have been much happier along the way.<br /><br />So I would say to you: be optimistic! Expect the best out of life! Expecting the best out of life is better than being miserably pessimistic. Above all though my optimistic friend, don't forget to do your part to not just think but also act optimistically.</p> ]]></description>
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<title>A Window Of Opportunity</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 22:25:17 -0700</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <p>From the "gradual path" of believing yourself to be who you think you are and your attempts to transcend yourself into that, which is already true of you, you will think your sincerity is enough for you to come home to the heart.<br /><br />You may spend the next thirty years trying to awaken from your "bind and blind of your mind" - the belief that you are this mindbody that you travel around through. All the while you have been turning your back on the simplicity and clarity of who you already are, getting distracted by "arisings" of manifestation and going off on tangent with those distractions. Six months later - if not longer - you come back to a point of clarity once again and then off you go again on another "ticky tour" of your mind.<br /><br />You will have created another thirty years of the "stuff of bondage" that must unravel of this mindbody that prevents you from realising the beauty and simplicity of who you already are - the heart, self.<br /><br />Fortunately, it matters not to self whether you realize who you are or not. Who you are is, whether you be this one or whether you believe yourself to be much less than who you are - who you think you are.<br /><br />You can speak of the essence of who you are all you like. You can speak of "nothingness" until you are blue in the face. You will not understand its play from within manifestation, its "windows of opportunity" that appear from time to time to enable you to break through your own resistance to being who you already are, or of what you are currently doing that obstructs your own heart from flowing without obstruction.<br /><br />Unfortunately, the "western male mind" - which is a word addicted mind - claims knowership of something which it can never know anything about. It projects what it thinks is the way it should all be like - its expectations - and then judges according to those expectations. Now, talk about the world of your own imagination. No matter what is going down you squeeze it into this world of yours, of who you think you are, unreality. You do not get to abide as the one that is already who you are.<br /><br />No amount of words are going to help you out here. You have to surrender who you think you are.<br /><br />There is no getting around this.<br /><br />You are involved flat out with trying to get around this fact that you have to let go of, have to wrench apart those fingers that have a stranglehold on who you think you are. You really believe that somehow you can be who you think you are and somehow "attain" and "add" the beauty of the heart - who you are - to who you think you are.<br /><br />Nope. That is never going to happen.<br /><br />You have to surrender who you think you are and be this one that is already true of you - now this you can "do".<br /><br />The "stopping and dropping" of what you are not and the "seeing and being" of who you are is entirely at your fingertips. It is not a "doing." It is a shift of focus of your attention from being on what you ordinarily think yourself to be to being focused on what is already true of you.<br /><br />Left to your own devices you will not do this.<br /><br />Before the next blink of the eye happens you will be back to buying into who you think you are and believing your mind - and this is before someone else comes into your room, to say nothing of when they engage you in conversation. What to say when you become actively involved in the dance of life, doing things? <br /><br />Even though this great matter of being who you are is one of simplicity itself, your capacity to stand free of what you have done for so very long is much more complicated than you realize. If you are not consciously at rest as who you are - not who you think you are - in this moment right now then all of what you are up to has not worked for you. "Gradual" is not applicable in your immediate freedom.<br /><br />I make no apology about telling your "western male mind" this... <br /><br />Unless you find yourself in the company of one who lives constantly and consistently the obviousness and clarity of the self - at home in the heart, self realized - then you will only keep on getting lost in the machinations of who you think you are.<br /><br />And I am not referring to the majority of these so called "awakened teachers" who currently proliferate this planet with their "about" teachings. These folk may well inspire you to do or look for more than your normal daily drudgery because they appeal to your mind and partly to your heart. They will not and cannot bring you directly home to the heart because that is not here they consciously reside. They themselves are still learning - "gradually," even though their "gradual" may well be faster than your "gradual" - about who they are not.<br /><br />A self realizer is a window of opportunity to the heart.</p> ]]></description>
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<title>Why You Can't Have What You Want…</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 09:31:14 -0700</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <p>The three steps to manifesting all the things you desire are simple steps most of us will not be able to accomplish consciously.</p>
<p>Why is it some people who seem to be less deserving than you, have it all? Abundance, friends, and relationships keep coming their way while you keep struggling to make ends meet. You know you deserve their abundance, but it seems unattainable. You're smart, educated, deserving, and you work hard-what is it they know that you do not?</p>
<p>As simple and unrealistic as it may seem-the one and only reason they have it is because they know they can. And they know they can have more anytime they wish. It is this thought separating them from you.</p>
<p>Whether they were born into it, or worked for it-they all have the same knowingness-they can have it and more. This knowingness is why only five percent of the population controls 95% of the world's riches.Although the only difference in having and not having is within the knowledge you can have it-there are ten good reasons you will be able to come up with that will support your belief "you can not have it."</p>
<p>1. Don't know what you really want.</p>
<p>2. Too difficult to focus on your desire</p>
<p>3. Easily distracted by others things.</p>
<p>4. Want to control the process.</p>
<p>5. You believe you do not have the power to change your circumstances.</p>
<p>6. You do not deserve.</p>
<p>7. It is not God's will.</p>
<p>8. It's too simple.</p>
<p>9. It is selfish.</p>
<p>10. You just cannot have anything you want.</p>
<p>From the time you were old enough to understand what your parents and others were telling you, you were taught these ten destructive beliefs. It is within the reality of these beliefs that you are guided in what you create and the circumstances of your life-I can prove it right now!</p>
<p>Close your eyes for a moment and imagine you have the perfect lover or companion sitting beside you holding out five one-million dollar bills to you. Now open your eyes and discover there is no one there and no money-why not? Listen to yourself coming up with all the reasons it doesn't work that way, and you will quickly discover why it is you did not get what you imagined.</p>
<p>Now this may sound simple and childish, but it is your perceptions, your convictions, and knowing which make these things impossible for you. The truth is, you do manifest or create all the circumstances of your life just by imagining it. For most all of us it is done on a subconscious level so we take no responsibility for it.</p>
<p>That knowingness can be raised to a conscious level with a little practice and willingness. The first step to making it happen is in accepting you can do it-and it's all you really have to do. Nothing else matters-nothing else converts energy or thought to matter.</p>
<p>In all you can imagine or dream of, simply know you already have it, even if you have to lie to yourself for a period of time. Picture it, focus on what it is you wish to experience and you will bring it into your experience-you will have it as your own.</p>
<p>You will always get what it is you truly desire-desire is the key word. You can never have what you want, but you always get what you desire. Be careful as your thoughts will most often fool you. Most people for instance will desire something (a thing) because it is their belief it will bring them happiness. If happiness is what you truly desire then you do no need to focus on a thing-focus on the happiness and it will be yours and it will be expressed in a happy way.</p>
<p>If it is your desire to experience having or doing a thing-that desire will also be made manifest, but you may not experience the happiness you said you desired. Your thoughts will most often betray you and it is your words which command the spirit to create what you desire. Be ever so careful in your choice of words.</p>
<p>It may take a second, a minute, a day, or years to change your thought patterns, but once you do-you will know you can have what you desire on demand-in the blink of an eye-on demand.</p> ]]></description>
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